Sunday, February 8, 2009

Mothers

Tonight there was a fireside at church that I went to with a couple of friends.  It was so great.  I am so glad that I went!  The Stake President had his 16 year old son talk about his mother.  He said one quote on being a mother that struck me so profoundly!  I had to go ask him what it was.  He told me where he got it and this is what it says....


"A mother has far greater influence on her children than anyone else, and she must realize that every word she speaks, every act, every response, her attitude, even her appearance and manner of dress affect the lives of her children and the whole family. It is while the child is in the home that he gains from his mother the attitudes, hopes, and beliefs that will determine the kind of life he will live and the contribution he will make to society." Eldon Tanner

I LOVE this so much!  At first I thought about my mother.  I thought about how she has been such a great example to me.  She truly has emulated this quote to the tee.  Then I started thinking about myself as a mother.  Being a mom has been the most special thing to me.  I love my kids more than anything.  I constantly worry about if I have taught them all they need to know to survive in this world, spiritually, physically.  I am constantly thinking about my kids and what I can do better.  I appreciate Derek sharing this.  Wow a 16 year old boy can actually have these great thoughts about his mom!

I am thankful for my wonderful mom and the example she has been to me.  I know that I am a good mom because of her.  She has always been loving and caring to me.  I hope I can pass on to my kids all the good parts of me.  That my attitude and example will be one that they admire and will want to possess.  I realize the great responsibility that comes when you have children.  I don't take it lightly.  I am so thankful to rob for helping me create these special beautiful children that I have!  I hope I can live up to the possibility of being a great mom! I am truly blessed in my life!

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thank you for posting about conference last night.Cause I could not make it.I just wanted to let you know that you are great example to your kids AND all of us in the Y.W.I am so glad that I had a oppotunity to be able to serve Y.W in the same time with you.

Kristine said...

DUDE! I totally missed it... and I'm bummed. thanks for sharing the thought. Its very true.

Martin Moments said...

I am going to copy and paste this post so that I can read it more often. I think a little reminder every once in a while is good. Sometimes I know I get busy and so focused on something that my children have to notice. I hope I can be better at taking time out to listen to them and focus on thier needs. Like right now Janae is asking for toast :0)

Lindy said...

Rachel, thanks for this post. What a wonderful quote to remind us of how infinitely important our job at home is. I really needed this! I may still it to put on my blog...just so I have it for always.

Marcie Ashton said...

Inspiring-definitely. But truth be told, frightening/overwhelming as well. Especially as my kids get older, and I see the time of my influence running out. Thank goodness for all the other mothers out there that help pick up the slack and are a part of raising my kids. (grandmas, aunts, teachers, etc.)

christine said...

thanks so much for posting that quote. i'm printing it out to put up someplace where i can see it and be reminded.